Community Guidelines

The Luvv.Wavv community is a place to share what heartbreak actually feels like, anonymously, with people who understand. Everyone here is carrying something. These rules exist to keep it that way.

Who this space is for

The community feed and direct messages are limited to members 18 and older. Your journey, journal, and companion chat are available regardless of age — the community is the one part of Luvv.Wavv reserved for adults.

You're anonymous — keep it that way

• You post under a randomly generated handle, never your real name or email.
• Don't share your own contact information (email, phone, social handles) or anyone else's — we filter for this automatically, including spaced-out or spelled-out attempts, but the rule stands regardless.
• You can reset your anonymous identity at any time, though doing so permanently erases your posts, replies, and conversations — it's a one-way door, kept that way out of fairness to the people you've been talking to.

Be gentle

• No harassment, targeting, or pile-ons — including in direct messages.
• No mocking someone's pain, timeline, or way of healing. There's no "getting over it" schedule here.
• Sending support is genuinely welcome — reactions and replies exist for exactly that.

Reporting

Every post, reply, and direct message can be reported with a reason. Content that accumulates enough reports is automatically hidden pending review, and a human reviews flagged content regularly — automated systems act first for real-time safety, but people make the final call.

Reporting is for genuine concerns, not to silence someone you disagree with. Reporting many different people in a short window is treated as a strong signal of misuse and can result in losing access to community features.

Direct messages

Messaging is opt-in — members choose whether to allow it at all. You can block anyone at any time, which stops messages in both directions, and unblock later if you change your mind. The same content rules (no personal info, no harassment) apply in DMs.

If something you read concerns you

If a post or message suggests someone might be in crisis, our system may surface a check-in banner with crisis resources to the person who wrote it. If you're worried about someone, reporting the content lets our team see it too. And if you're the one struggling — reach out. The Crisis Resources page is always available, no matter what you've typed or haven't.

What happens if you break these rules

Depending on severity: content removal, a temporary restriction from posting or reporting, or a full ban from community features. Your journey, journal, and companion chat are never affected by community-only restrictions.